Bad Relationships......

Ladies and Gents, you know you are in a bad relationship , when he/she treats themselves better than they treat you, when he/she speaks more of themselves than they do you, for example, he looks in the mirror and says to himself, damn i look good, and looks at you and says, damn , you could stand to lose a little weight, or your fat boo, or i dont like your hair or ive gone to this school, i done this, and ive done that, and im doing this, im doing that, im im im  im!!!!! you get the picture, and you probably can count how many times he's said anything nice to you or about you. NO!!! unacceptable behavior, RUN, GET OUT, and GO love yourself until the right one comes. If he didnt treat you right then, he will not now, he will not change. Its important that we are able to know love and identify it when it comes, but they way to really do that, is to really know yourself, really give yourself all the loving you deserve first, dont wait to get it, give it to yourself now, especially if you are single and aint got nobody. give yourself love, take yourself out, treat yourself good, exercise, go to a movie, enjoy. laugh, and you will know that when you get with he or she that it will be right!!! because you'll know what love is, because you would have given love to yourself. It should be nothing less than your absolute, the best of who you have become. If you have been faithful, committed to yourself, your family and to God, you wouldn't cheat on yourself and you wont cheat on him or her, and you should expect the same from your mate, they should be faithfully committed to themselves, family and God. This is just a good recipe and formula, that i have lived by and it works, you began to look for the right things, instead of ignoring all the wrong and those red flag warnings. You will never again, let someone speak down on you or make you feel like you dont matter, if they are a potential candidate for love, you will be able to listen and hear for it, he or she will compliment you, and will be supportive of where you are, and encourage where you're going or where you want to go, Love is not puffed up and it does not tear down, it builds, and it lifts, if these things are not happening to you on the first few dates, hell or even the first date, RUN!!!! Not the one!!!! if its the first date and he has dissed you even one time, or said something that really just does not agree with your spirt, say, CHECK PLEASE!!!!! and thank you but no thank you. NOT THE ONE!!!!, However long you have to wait till the right one comes, it will be worth the wait. Because we would be a fool to think that wrong could ever really be right!!! dont try it. but love will come, and it will be right, just as long as you are! I love you, love yourself!!!!! peace n love.