Prioritize Your LIfe - Answer to Love

Live to learn and to know whats most important in ones life. It is most certainly not a car or house, tho those accomplishments in their right timing and affordability are nice, material things and possessions or people should never ever be the most important things in our lives, other than GOD. We must learn as individuals, what is most important in each one of our lives that will cause us to live, to be, to grow, to know, all in the earth that we should know, and my friends, knowing God, or getting to know God, will most definetely help to reveal all that there is to know, all that you need to or should know in this earth realm. Getting to know God, allows you to also begin to know yourself, not only to know yourself but then to love yourself, despite what others have said, have done, or may think of you. Getting to know God is the greatest benefit of your life. It will unlock hidden treasures on the inside of you, things that you had no idea were even there, the love of God will do that for you which you could not do for yourself, or better yet, any other human being. A developing relationship with God will sharpen your discernment to be able to see more clearly and love more dearly, those that desire love, Will also help you to know what or who is right for you or wrong for you, this includes friends who are really frienemies then to become haters as you learn to let them go! Sometimes it could even be your own family! your own blood! sometimes you gotta go! depart! get away! It begins with the creator, Him first, all else will begin to fall into place and there proper space. Have you ever walked into a home, and all the living room furniture was in the bedroom and bedroom furniture in the living room, kitchen stuff in bathroom and bathroom in kitchen??? Not really!!!! for to have done so would mean that this house would be out of order, unorganized and not prioritized! cannot sale and runs the risk of failure. But on the other hand, getting to know your maker, the creator, will help  you to remove the clutter, to begin to put things in their proper place and perspective in life, getting to know God, will help you to better know yourself, in realizing that He wants the very best for you and your life, He wants to help you organize and prioritize your life! but you have to have an open heart and mind in order to receive the divine plan that God has for your life, you have to be willing to live a surrendered life, a life yielded to God, with spirit understanding and insight, and He will show you His way and HIs plan for your own life, not their plan for you, some times His plan and His way for your life, is NOT the way that your people or your family would understand, but it is a way that was created and designed especially for you, to reach those that are like-minded and clothed.  Sometimes you may have to go it alone, or it will feel like you may be alone, but know that He has said that He would never leave or forsake you, and the reason that He has said this, is because He knows that if you are called or chosen, you will not be liked by everyone, folk will even fall out of love with you, but if He said it, that settles it, If God said that I am more than a conqueror , i choose to believe what He says, about who it is that I am today, I choose to activate faith and walk in the principles of light and life that are set before me, not only found in the word of God, the bible, but also in your current, daily walk with God, He will reveal to you things about your own personal life or love and happiness, that cannot be found in the word, and sometimes whats revealed is even more challenging than whats found in the word concerning your walk and your life, but God sees all challenges thru to end, you will not be left alone and with His infinite power you will win and succeed and whatever you set your heart and mind to do, because you will know, that its is not in my own power or might, but by the spirit of the living God that helps me to know that I can do this, and that it shall be done. Struggle no more, no longer live in defeat and feeling like you have failed everyone around you, or that if you are not making enough money , you cannot live, or that if you dont look a certain way then you could never be or do as you please, or you could never be happy if you dont have this thing or that thing, these are all lies, that come from another place, to cause you to live in defeat and never claim hold of what really living life feels like, really living life, feels like peace, it feels like love, it feels like joy, you may not have any money in the bank or to your name, but you have peace in your mind and in your heart, you have joy deep down in your soul, you have love, because we know that to know God, who is love, is to know love itself. You have not really known love, until that moment when love knocks on your door, and ask the question, can i come in? it is not until your answer is Yes, that you will receive your true and real change or heart and mind and walk uprightly before Him, and really and truly live freely, walking directly into your destiny, despite who dont like it. If God is down wit it, then so be it! So I ask  you today, when love comes knockin on your door, could be today or tommorrow, or even at this very moment as you read this passage, what will your answer be?

Bad Relationships......

Ladies and Gents, you know you are in a bad relationship , when he/she treats themselves better than they treat you, when he/she speaks more of themselves than they do you, for example, he looks in the mirror and says to himself, damn i look good, and looks at you and says, damn , you could stand to lose a little weight, or your fat boo, or i dont like your hair or ive gone to this school, i done this, and ive done that, and im doing this, im doing that, im im im  im!!!!! you get the picture, and you probably can count how many times he's said anything nice to you or about you. NO!!! unacceptable behavior, RUN, GET OUT, and GO love yourself until the right one comes. If he didnt treat you right then, he will not now, he will not change. Its important that we are able to know love and identify it when it comes, but they way to really do that, is to really know yourself, really give yourself all the loving you deserve first, dont wait to get it, give it to yourself now, especially if you are single and aint got nobody. give yourself love, take yourself out, treat yourself good, exercise, go to a movie, enjoy. laugh, and you will know that when you get with he or she that it will be right!!! because you'll know what love is, because you would have given love to yourself. It should be nothing less than your absolute, the best of who you have become. If you have been faithful, committed to yourself, your family and to God, you wouldn't cheat on yourself and you wont cheat on him or her, and you should expect the same from your mate, they should be faithfully committed to themselves, family and God. This is just a good recipe and formula, that i have lived by and it works, you began to look for the right things, instead of ignoring all the wrong and those red flag warnings. You will never again, let someone speak down on you or make you feel like you dont matter, if they are a potential candidate for love, you will be able to listen and hear for it, he or she will compliment you, and will be supportive of where you are, and encourage where you're going or where you want to go, Love is not puffed up and it does not tear down, it builds, and it lifts, if these things are not happening to you on the first few dates, hell or even the first date, RUN!!!! Not the one!!!! if its the first date and he has dissed you even one time, or said something that really just does not agree with your spirt, say, CHECK PLEASE!!!!! and thank you but no thank you. NOT THE ONE!!!!, However long you have to wait till the right one comes, it will be worth the wait. Because we would be a fool to think that wrong could ever really be right!!! dont try it. but love will come, and it will be right, just as long as you are! I love you, love yourself!!!!! peace n love.